So you have a boyfriend and he cheats once on you, are you wondering if he will do it again? Do you want to try and forgive him but you are not willing to be betrayed by him again in the future? Do you want to know if you can still salvage your relationship or just go on your own separate ways? These are the usual questions that go through the mind of women who have come across the C word in their relationships. If he cheats once, is he capable of doing it again? Read on to get enlightened.
Know the whole story
When women find out that their boyfriends cheated on them, they are quick to go bat-crazy and start lashing out. Even though this is completely acceptable, it would help if you take the time to find out why your guy cheated on you in the first place. Has it been a long time since you wanted to make love to him? Are you refusing to get intimate with him? Have you been so busy with your career that you have pushed him to the sidelines? Even though these reasons do not necessarily justify infidelity, it will help you see the root of the problem and understand your own shortcomings.
Prepare for the worst
If he cheats once for no reason at all (at least, none that can be blamed on you) then you have a real problem in your hands. The sad truth is that if he is capable of cheating on you once, then chances are he will be capable of doing it again. If you feel that he is not remorseful enough or that you are unable to forgive him, then move on.
Even if he cheats once and only once, it’s already a red flag that he may be incapable of an honest relationship.
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